"If you're in a relationship where they are constantly putting you down, showing you how you are wrong, or belittling you... and you're wondering why, here's your answer: It's to keep you second-guessing about who you are and cause you to doubt what you know... in an effort to hold you back and maintain control. If they really loved you, they wouldn't break you down... they'd build you up and support you. But there's a second part of this situation. Why are YOU putting up with it? Usually, it's because you are attaching your self-worth to their thoughts and opinions of you. If you do [this] or [that], then they will *finally* love you. A relationship takes two... and you can't *make* someone love you. They have to do that on their own."-Charles J. Orlando
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