Thoughts That Touch My Heart

"Sometimes, your alcoholic parent was warm and loving... sometimes rejecting and hostile. Although your non-alcoholic parent told you that you were loved, he or she was so often absorbed with worry and so irritable that you rarely felt loved. There was no consistency. This is love as you understood it as a child and are still experiencing it. Ever wonder why you are attracted to the person who is warm and loving one day and rejecting the next? Ever wonder why the person who says he or she will call and doesn't seems more desirable than the one who is consistent?"-BLM