"It’s easy to point the finger at your spouse and say what they aren’t doing or how they’re coming up short in your relationship. It’s easy to identify your spouse's weaknesses and isolate them out as though they’re the sole contributor to the chaos in your relationship. It’s easy to say, “You are the problem…You are the reason we’re stuck.” Or what about, “You are the reason I cheated.” Or… “You are the reason we got money problems.” All of these statements may carry some validity, but there’s a key component that’s being omitted. There are no “I” statements."-BLM
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