"Why do some people fall in love over and over again with those who are emotionally unavailable? Two main reasons: 1) Lack of self- esteem, and they get/build their sense of self-worth by feeling "needed" by an incomplete person. And 2) Ignoring red flags and blatant warning signs... instead making excuses for poor treatment and *choosing* to settle for someone's second-best efforts. The way out of this destructive pattern is to see *your* part in things and identify the behavioral pattern *you* are exhibiting. From there, not being attracted to the wrong person will start to fall into place. (Easy to say... takes time to do.)"-Charles J. Orlando
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