Thoughts That Touch My Heart

"I think one of the best pieces of advice I ever came across is when I learned to be the best "single" I could possibly be. Single... not defined as a "status"... but single defined as being "separate, unique, and whole." When we work on becoming the best separate, unique, and whole person we can be, we will have enough to do.  Then, the ideal would be to meet someone who is also separate, unique, and whole. Then, you can have these two "single" (separate, unique, and whole) people who can enter into what would hopefully be a healthy relationship... because there would be no co-dependency and enabling going on. This is what I have learned, observed, and experienced."-Doris Little