Thoughts That Touch My Heart

"If a man knows that he already owns a woman's heart, he won't put in that much effort to please her. He can do small things that irritate her because he knows she'll overlook them. That's exactly what's happening when you want him to spend more time with you and he doesn't. He knows you'll still hang out when he suggests it, so he sees no reason to switch his schedule around to see you. In other words, when he gets around to finally seeing you, he knows you'll be eagerly waiting for it. You can completely change that now by not seeing him as often. Start living your own life and stop waiting for him to decide when you two will get together. Instead, get out and have fun with friends. Don't be as accessible as you've been. If you can do this, and not make a big deal about it, he'll sense the shift in your attitude and it will make him sit up and take notice."-Gillian Reynolds