Thoughts That Touch My Heart

"The other dynamic that kicks in with early sexual activity is that the relationship rushes past all the foundational aspects of a healthy partnership; true developed friendship, spiritual conversations and prayer together, real living activities, finances, likes and dislikes of every kind. All you really ever know about each other (before it's too late, and you're living together or married), is how much you enjoy being in bed together. 95% of awake living though, is done outside the bedroom. One begins to understand why marriages don't succeed in our highly sexualized culture. Couples finally tear themselves away from the bedroom, only to find that they don't want to be in the same room with the one who's given them such great sex. God's ways are truly best. He didn't institute His laws governing our living to keep us from enjoyment, but to ENSURE our LONG-TERM quality of life in a healthy relationship!"-Duane Langenberg